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Open Letter to the love of my life

Happiest birthday to my bestest friend, my favorite person, my mentor, my soulmate, my constant, my universe, my everything…..

 29 years back on this day, an angel was born in Patna. And that angle has made me cry with laughter and made my life full of adventure for 1071 days. This day isn’t just about adding another candle to your cake, but it’s so much more than that. It’s another year of crazy amazing memories, stupid jokes, millions of smiles, and another year of holding each other. It’s a celebration of the day the love of my life came into this world.

I know you are rolling your eyes, but I’m writing this post to tell you how much you mean to me.

    You are my anchor in the waves and winds.

    You are my first and last ( and 1000 in between)  thought of the day.

    You are the wind beneath my wings.

     You are my sunshine, my moon, and all my stars.

    You baby, are the reason for every smile on my face, the reason for the 4.5 happiness quotient.

When I look in your eyes, I don’t see perfection. I don’t see a love story that would necessarily be something people would watch on a big screen and dream about. I see someone who will fight for me and protect me and love me in spite of all the ways I am still a wreck. I see YOU. Wherever you are. That’s my home.

No words can express my love for you. You are the most adorable ,humble, polite, loving ,caring, understanding person. (These are just a few adjectives from a lonnnng list of things I love about you )  I could talk for days about how amazing you are and all of the little things I appreciate about you. But I know how much you dislike it :D. So my SRP, I will just conclude it by saying

THANK YOU, BIRTHDAY BOY.

Thank you for choosing me, thank you for your unconditional love, thank you for listening to my constant chapar chapar,  thank you for handling my moods swings, thank you for being my constant, thank you for trusting me, thank you for helping me grow, thank you for making me a better person, thank you for being my GPS, thank you for inspiring me, thank you for never giving up on me, thank you for making my forgotten dreams a reality, thank you for accepting all my flaws, thank you for making me believe in the beautiful things of life, thank you for having confidence in me when I didn’t, thank you for being the yin to my yang and most importantly thank you for being who you are.

I love you always and forever…..

 

 

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